Night in the Country in Yerington happened this past weekend. Spent it with a wonderful young lady friend who had just gotten out of the hospital the day before. She was not about to let a little surgery prevent her from attending one of her favorite events.
I can say I had a great time and was happy for 4 straight days. Much of course because of her.
We arrived between 4 and 5 on Thursday right as the wind started kicking up from a storm further east. We waited for a short time before trying to set up camp. We realized we had a camp of 20 something year old males beside us. They turned out to be the best neighbors we could have. They pitched in to help us set everything up as the wind subsided. Once we finished setting up camp, we sat down to eat and drink. Start of a great weekend ahead.
The next morning my woman made me some breakfast burritos. She overdid the bacon which tasted like burnt popcorn. She ate very little and took her medication. After breakfast we started drinking. She essentially passed out early on in the morning. She loves her tequila but with very little food, recovering from surgery and taking medications it proved to be a difficult day ahead. She slept for maybe an hour but then started tossing and complaining about being so hot.
I got her out of the sun and into our tent. I doused her with water on her head and clothes but nothing seemed to help. Realized she probably had heat stroke since she was not perspiring at all. I helped her into the car so she could be in some air conditioning. She slept for a couple more hours. The guys asked about her thinking she had already had too much to drink. So I explained about the surgery, the medications, the lack of food, the quantity of alcohol and the heat were all combining to make a serious concern.
She recovered enough to have a great time at that evening’s concerts. I got to be close to her and hold her tight and enjoy her body next to mine.
Then it was time to make our way back to the camp. She was definitely drunk so it took a little bit to coax her home, but we finally made it and put her onto her cot. How I wish I could have enjoyed her body some more that night but no matter how drunk she gets she would never lose her self control.
Saturday was fun as well. She felt a lot better and she was able to take a couple of showers during the day to keep cool. She still did not eat much but more than the day before. We explored the camping areas and did a little shopping and enjoyed some ice cream. Once we returned to camp, we started taking shots of tequila with the guys in the other camp.
Then the concerts started. I enjoyed being with her but then the evening took a turn I had not expected and could not cope with. She started coming onto another guy. She had said earlier that she had chosen not to be sexually active since her breakup a year earlier but she knew she could have any guy if or when she wanted. To me she was driving home that point. Of course I will never be the guy she wants but to come onto a guy right in front of me made me visibly upset. She asked me not to be mad, but how could I not be? Eventually I left because I did not know how and could not handle it.
I consider that my fail. Fortunately nothing happened with that guy from what she tells me. But I could have acted a lot better. I could have told him I had never seen her this way before and that I did not know how to cope with it. And then tell him firmly that he better not take advantage of her in this state. If I find out he had, we could then pursue rape charges.
She returned the next morning as I was breaking down camp. I kept conversation polite so we could continue breaking down camp and head home as quickly as possible. I was in no mood for any other conversations and really just wanted to be rid of her. But she kept apologizing for her behavior and was not sure why she acted that way. She kept saying “you know me – I am not like that”. Because of her remorsefulness, I eventually forgave her but let her know how hurt I was.
Once we got back home, I spent the rest of the day with her. I took a little nap while she showered. I took a shower then we headed to the Truckee to wade into the river and walk the dogs. When we got back to her home, we took another little nap. I kept stroking her hair as I drifted off to sleep. I enjoy her body and will take every opportunity to touch her. I want her to feel loved and cared for.
Reflecting on everything, I can say I was happy for 4 straight days. I have not stitched together that many days in a long while. Maybe an hour or two. But 4 days? It was nice.
We will go camping again in a few weeks. I am looking forward to it. We will have so much fun hiking, swimming, eating and drinking. I will continue to enjoy her body and make suggestive comments letting her know she turns me on.